
Anything Is Possible
When you are able to be yourself, believe in yourself and back yourself
that's when you can really start Growing Through


Hi,
I'm Nerissa
When you look me up online, you’ll see that I’m an international keynote speaker, transformational coach and bestselling author.
But what I’m most proud of?
I get to work with remarkable individuals
(like you!) and empower them to step into their light — and become a lighthouse for others.
Because my life and my story
were once so far from this reality.

Sometimes, it’s the things that break us that have the true potential to make us.
When I hit rock bottom, I realised no one was coming to save me. Only I had the power to change my story.
Don’t stand like that. Don’t speak like that. For God’s sake,
don’t show up like that!
Yup, those were the sounds of my childhood. Growing up, I never fit in anywhere. Everyone wanted me to stand, talk, walk and dress like the other little girls my age. I really tried. But I just couldn’t fit the mould of the “good Indian Christian girl” society wanted me to be.
My differences weren’t celebrated. I was bullied and belittled at every step. I was told I was worthless, that I didn’t belong.
Those words cut deep, and I started to believe them. I lost my confidence, my voice, my light. I became a shadow of myself, scared of standing out, afraid of being seen or heard.
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So for the first time in my life, I decided to say YES to ME.
It was a long, challenging and transformative journey of self-discovery. I had to push myself out of my comfort zone, shatter decades of negative conditioning and persevere through countless breakdowns and breakthroughs — to reach the dawn of my becoming.
And it all led to that moment when, after a lifetime of living in fear and denial, I finally found the courage to come out to the world — and show up as my real, authentic and unapologetic self.
Today, I’m exactly who I was born to be. In all my rawness, realness and brokenness — called to serve humanity.
There’s a saying: “The habits you created to survive will no longer serve you when it’s time to thrive.”
I learned the hard way that the habits, beliefs and coping behaviours we develop early on can be super hard to shake off.
And it’s a lot harder if you try to do it all by yourself.
I wouldn’t be where I am today if I didn’t reach out and ask for help. I’m living proof that with the right coaching and mentorship, you can discover your voice, embrace your truth, and create your own incredible future.
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I want to see that happen for you too.
And I’m here to do whatever it takes to support,
enable and empower you to:
Raise your voice
Raise your voice
Raise your voice
Raise your voice
Powerfully share your story
Powerfully
share your story
Raise your voice
Step into a life of purpose & possibility
Step into a life of purpose & possibility
My mission is simple:
to empower you to
grow into the best version of yourself, transform your life and lead the way for others to rise.
I want to be the coach, leader and mentor I wish
I had as a kid — so I can help you avoid some of the pain and heartache I had to wade through all by myself.

If you skipped past the text marathon above, here’s the bite-sized scoop on my life
Delivered keynotes and presentations to over 15,000 captivated listeners at events and summits across the world
Speaker Advocate Coach for the Lisa Nichols companies, having coached students across
52 countries
Certified Neuro-Transformational Coach, Facilitator and Trainer having coached 100s of leaders
Founded the Speak For IMPACT and Say Yes To YOU coaching programs
Written 2 international bestselling books
Growing Through and A Different Reality
Impacted hundreds of leaders, executives and teams as a Change and Transformation Leader for over 12 years
When I’m not bouncing from one Zoom room to another or lounging out with my dog, you can find me on stage in a different avatar – performing at modeling, dancing and drag shows!

My Manifesto
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Amplify your 'You'niquess
Real, raw, imperfect and fabulous – authenticity looks beautiful on everyone
Live in purpose and possibility
Anything’s possible when you can be yourself, back yourself & believe in yourself
Ensure
everyone's welcome
There’s a seat for everyone at our table
Shine your
light
So you can become a lighthouse for others
Dance it
out
A quick dance party makes everything better
Let's work together
Speaking
Powerful stories. Relatable insights. Actionable strategies. Served with an
extra-large dose of positive energy
and enthusiasm.

Coaching
Unleash your inner power.
Unlock your true potential.
Raise your voice and
share your message with confidence.

Books
Get a behind-the-scenes look into Nerissa’s life and journey through crisis, adversity, acceptance, mental health, resilience and love.
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